Thursday 24 November 2016

Fani-Kayode Calls
Jimoh Ibrahim A Big,
Fat Pig And A Ritualist
Who Sleeps In Coffins.


 Ibrahim’sThe Appeal Court ruling that the candidate of theAhmed Makarfi faction of the Peoples Democratic
Party, Eyitayo Jegede replaces the candidate of
the Ali-Modu Sheriff faction of the same party,
Jimoh Ibrahim has led to a war of words between
former Aviation minister, Chief Fani-Kayode and
Jimoh Ibrahim.
After Fani-Kayode had earlier reacted to the
Justice Saulawa of the Appeal court ruling that set
aside Justice Okon Abang ruling that installed
Jimoh Ibrahim by congratulating Jegede, he
launched an attack on the deposed PDP
candidate and which inevitably got responded to
by the Ondo billionaire businessman.
Read the exchanges below:
“ Jimoh Ibrahim is a ravenous beast.
Everything he touches turns to shit. When
you put a pig in a big fine house it will still
shit in the — Femi Olu-Kayode(FFK)
(@realFFK) November 23, 2016
‘ corridors and sitting room and foul it
up because that is what pigs do. That is
Jimoh for u. He is a — Femi Olu-Kayode
(FFK) (@realFFK) November 23, 2016
‘ big, fat, ugly, greedy and disgusting
pig. He was born and raised in the guttter
and the gutter never left him. — Femi Olu-
Kayode(FFK) (@realFFK) November 23,
2016
‘ I warned PDP about Ali Modu Sheriff
right from the outset. He was an APC mole
and agent of destruction. Thankfully God
has now removed him. — Femi Olu-Kayode
(FFK) (@realFFK) November 23, 2016
‘ Tell Jimoh the pig that unlike him I do
not have a covenant with the devil, I am not
a ritualist and I do not sleep in coffins for
money. — Femi Olu-Kayode(FFK)
(@realFFK) November 23, 2016
‘ For every agent of darkness there is
an agent of light.For every demon there is
an angel.For every Justice Abang there is a
Justice Salauwa.

Thursday 3 November 2016

Top 5 Things Men and Women Can Do for Men.


1. Educate and normalize the scientific fact that we
all have the same universal core emotions:
sadness, fear, anger, disgust, joy, excitement,
and sexual excitement.
2. Inform the men in your life that the need to
connect with others and share one’s true
feelings and thoughts is normal for all humans,
and not specific to sex and gender.
3. Invite the men in your life to share their
feelings and thoughts (especially the ones they
are ashamed about) while also stressing the
point that you will not judge them as weak or
feminine for sharing vulnerabilities.
4. Know that humans are complex creatures. We
all have weak and strong parts. It’s important to
hold all aspects of us simultaneously. That’s the
way people feel whole and complete.
5. Recommend to everyone you know the movie
“The Mask You Live In,” which is now available
on Netflix.
1. Educate and normalize the scientific fact that we
all have the same universal core emotions:
sadness, fear, anger, disgust, joy, excitement,
and sexual excitement.
2. Inform the men in your life that the need to
connect with others and share one’s true
feelings and thoughts is normal for all humans,
and not specific to sex and gender.
3. Invite the men in your life to share their
feelings and thoughts (especially the ones they
are ashamed about) while also stressing the
point that you will not judge them as weak or
feminine for sharing vulnerabilities.
4. Know that humans are complex creatures. We
all have weak and strong parts. It’s important to
hold all aspects of us simultaneously. That’s the
way people feel whole and complete.
5. Recommend to everyone you know the movie
“The Mask You Live In,” which is now available
on Netflix.

The Difference Between Sex & Love for Men

As a psychotherapist who specializes in
emotions, and as a woman with my own
personal history of serial monogamy, I have
come to realize that some men channel their
need for love, intimacy, soothing, care, and
comfort into sexual desire.
Here are some examples:
Dylan wants sex when he feels sad because he
likes the comfort the physical holding provides.
Dylan, like most people, wants to be held when
he is sad. In fact, the need to be held when we

feel sad is biologically programmed into our
brains.
Jonathan wants sex when he’s lonely. He
believes it is weak to let someone know that he
feels lonely and wants company. Alternatively,
he thinks it is acceptable to find and ask for
sex, which satisfies his need for human
connection.
Sexual excitement is a core emotion. And, as we
know from research on emotions, each core
emotion has a “program” that has evolved over
thousands of years for survival purposes. This
“program” causes specific physical sensations
and impulses to arise inside us at the moment
when a particular emotion is triggered.
Sexual excitement is often physically felt as
sensations in the groin area with an impulse to
seek orgasmic release. Sadness, anxiety ,
loneliness, anger, and fear are other emotions
that can combine with sexual excitement. The
mashup of the tender emotions with sexual
excitement is the brilliant way the mind can
make sure core human needs are met in
consciously covert yet culturally acceptable
ways.
Mental health is improved by being in touch
with the full range of our core emotions.
Therefore, it is in our best interest to know
which core emotions are present and driving our
desire for sex. Is it pure sexual excitement? Is it
a need for comfort? Is it a need for connection?
Knowing the culture of masculinity we live in, it
should not come as a surprise that some men
feel they have to sublimate tender and “needy”
feelings into sexual desire. In the documentary
“The Mask We Live In,” filmmaker Jennifer Siebel
Newsom follows boys and young men as they
struggle to stay true to their authentic selves
while negotiating America’s narrow definition of
masculinity. If men and boys could own the full
range of their emotions, not just anger and
sexual excitement, we would see trends in
depression and anxiety decrease. Here’s why:
When we block our core emotions (sadness, fear,
anger) and needs for intimacy (love,
companionship, sharing of feelings, closeness)
men and women develop symptoms including
anxiety, shame, and depression. Symptoms go
away when we become reacquainted with our
core emotions. This first step to wellness comes
from understanding that it is normal for both
men and women to experience sadness, fear,
love, anger, and longing for connection both
sexual and through talking about our thoughts
and feelings with each other. Needs for
affection and love are as “masculine” as needs
for strength, power, and ambition. Emotions are
not for the weak, they are for the human.
Although things are slowly changing, the two
main emotions that are most acceptable for
men to display are still sexual excitement and
anger. The more tender emotions including fear,
sadness, love, need, and longing are still
considered “unmanly” to express. So it is not
surprising that the tender emotions, which have
to be expressed in some way, get bound to
sexuality. In fact, channeling needs for comfort
and soothing into sex is actually a clever
compromise. After all, during sex men can
unabashedly get held, stroked, kissed, hugged,
and loved up all under the acceptable guise of
a very manly act — that of sexual prowess. But
we can do better by helping to change the
culture of masculinity so it is in sync with our
biology.
FACT ABOUT FEELING

You don't have to act on your feelings.
Sometimes, acting on our emotions doesn’t
serve us, and the thoughts wrapped up in these
feelings are inaccurate. For instance, after being
rejected romantically, you feel unlovable. You
may even interpret this as a cold, hard fact. If
you let this feeling rule your behavior, you
might stop taking care of yourself or seeking
supportive relationships.
What’s more helpful is to acknowledge how
you’re feeling and explore the accuracy of your
thoughts. In the above example, while “this
emotion may feel understandable,” it’s also not
true, Taitz said.
In other words, you can choose whether you’re
going to act on your emotions. When acting is
unhelpful, you can notice your emotions (and
thoughts) “with distance and perspective.”
In other examples, you acknowledge that you
feel anxious about taking a test or taking a trip,
but you do both, anyway. You acknowledge
feeling angry, because you had a bad day, but
you decide to act with kindness to your spouse.
You’re upset with yourself for making a mistake,
but you don’t punish yourself by declining a
dinner date with a loved one.www.sholsam.blogspot.com
 Something you don't know about relationship
Many of us have an uncomfortable relationshipwith our feelings. We might stuff down our
sadness or sweep away our anger. We might
even have trouble identifying what we’re feeling
in the first place.
This isn’t surprising. According to
psychotherapist Joyce Marter, LCPC, we’re
socialized to mask our feelings. We learn that we
must cover up our emotions “in order to behave
appropriately, professionally, and to avoidconflict and navigate relationships.”
People also worry their emotions are wrong, bad
or even crazy, she said. They fear being rejected
or perceived as needy or foolish.
People may believe they’re weak if they feel sad
or scared, so they avoid these emotions. Or they
may ignore other emotions, believing they
shouldn’t be feeling that way.
While feelings may be tricky and we may view
them with unease or even suspicion, they’re
actually important and valuable.
Clinical psychologist Jennifer Taitz, PsyD, defines
an emotion as “a response that includes an
interpretation, physical sensations and a pull to
act.”
She gave this example: “When you feel afraid,
you might think, ‘ I’m in danger !’ you may feel
your heart rate race and find yourself sweating,
and you may feel yourself pulled to escape.”
Below, Taitz and Marter clarify three important
facts about feelings to help us cope more
effectively.

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Sunday 4 September 2016

 WORLD'S BIGGEST BUTT! DALLAS, TX – Dionne Washington
claims to have the biggest butt in the
world.
Dionne Washington can’t imagine
anything worse than dieting. Her
massive bottom is 5ft 3ins across andweighs a whopping 120 pounds – about
the same as Lindsay Lohan holding
twenty pounds of coke.
Dionne loves her butt.
“I am literally sitting on a fortune,” says
Dionne, 35. “My butt must be the widest
in the world and it already earns me
over $180,00 a year. I used to hate it,
but now it’s my fave feature.”
She’s sitting on a goldmine.
She knows how much her bottom
weighs because four men lifted her up
and flopped it down on a set of
industrial scales while holding up the
rest of her. At its widest point, it’s 14ft
9ins around, and she’s on a mission to
make it even bigger.
Dionne’s total weight is 425 lbs and at
5ft 4ins tall her Body Mass Index is 85.
That’s four times more than an average
woman and it puts her at risk of high
cholesterol, diabetes and heart
problems.
“I’m not concerned,” she insists. “I love
my body and wouldn’t change a thing.”
However, Amanda Thornton of Atlanta
has something to say about Dionne’s
claim for biggest butt:www.sholsam.blogspot.com











































’s Open
Golf Players
The 2016 U.S. Women’s Open Golf
Championship was the 71th U.S. Women’s
Open, and was held on July 7-10 at CordeValle
Golf Club, San Martin, California.
Today we take a look at some of the hottest
LPGA players that played for a chance in the
largest purse in women’s golf, at $4.5 million
for 2016. The tournament was televised by Fox
Sports 1 and Fox Sports. This should give you a
reason to tune into golf next time, even if it’s
not your game.
Veronica Felibert
Veronica Felibert played collegiate golf at the
University of Southern California and turned pro
in 2012. Her best finish on Tour was a fourth
place at the Walmart NW Arkansas
Championship.
Born: 15 June 1988 (age 27) Caracas, Venezuela
Height: 5 ft 7 in (1.70 m)
College: USC
Turned professional: 2012
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On dating advice for guys: “To a guy who
is trying to date a female golfer, he has to
be very patient because we spend a lot of
time on the golf course, and with a lot of
men. So don’t be jealous.”

“I got into golf because of my dad. He is a
really good golfer, and he didn’t have any
boys, so he got me and my sister playing
the game before any other sport.”

“I decided to play golf professionally in
college when I realized I was competing
against really good players who were
becoming professional. It wasn’t that far
from what I needed to do.”

“My style on the golf course is more about
the visor. It became a thing I would wear
during practices, then when I went to a
regular tournament and I wanted to wear
a regular hat, the sun hit me in my face so
much I couldn’t wear it. I decided I would
only wear the visor all the time.”
LEARN HOW TO READ MINDS
IN 10 
MINUTE'S1. Clear your mind of all thoughts andworries and open yourself to the people
and possibilities around you. Don’t
think about anything. Feel everything.
Become one with your environment and
the individual whose mind you want to2. See what you see – then see what you
don’t see. For example, look at a person
closely and really focus on him. Then
look at everything that’s NOT that
person, including the chair he’s sitting
in and the air around him.
This will give you a feel for what the
person is and isn’t, which is critical if
you’re going to read his mind without
interference from the forces and
energies that flow in and around all of
us.
3. Look your subject directly in the eyes
for 10 to 15 seconds and then quickly
turn away. Visualize his face and eyes
in your mind and focus intently on what
you feel about him.
At this point you will be tuned in to the
person’s thoughts. Let them fill your
mind.
4. Strike up a conversation with the
person. As you talk your mind will
literally be flooded with his thoughts,
feelings, wishes and plans. Trust your
instincts and intuitions. Don’t deny the
thoughts that are entering your mind.
Act on them right away or file them in
your memory for later use. The choice is
yours to make.


Thursday 1 September 2016

Most Beautiful U.S. Women’s Open
Golf Players
The 2016 U.S. Women’s Open Golf
Championship was the 71th U.S. Women’s
Open, and was held on July 7-10 at CordeValle
Golf Club, San Martin, California.
Today we take a look at some of the hottest
LPGA players that played for a chance in the
largest purse in women’s golf, at $4.5 million
for 2016. The tournament was televised by Fox
Sports 1 and Fox Sports. This should give you a
reason to tune into golf next time, even if it’s
not your game.
Veronica Felibert
Veronica Felibert played collegiate golf at the
University of Southern California and turned pro
in 2012. Her best finish on Tour was a fourth
place at the Walmart NW Arkansas
Championship.
Born: 15 June 1988 (age 27) Caracas, Venezuela
Height: 5 ft 7 in (1.70 m)
College: USC
Turned professional: 2012
On dating advice for guys: “To a guy who
is trying to date a female golfer, he has to
be very patient because we spend a lot of
time on the golf course, and with a lot of
men. So don’t be jealous.”

“I got into golf because of my dad. He is a
really good golfer, and he didn’t have any
boys, so he got me and my sister playing
the game before any other sport.”

“I decided to play golf professionally in
college when I realized I was competing
against really good players who were
becoming professional. It wasn’t that far
from what I needed to do.”

“My style on the golf course is more about
the visor. It became a thing I would wear
during practices, then when I went to a
regular tournament and I wanted to wear
a regular hat, the sun hit me in my face so
much I couldn’t wear it. I decided I would
only wear the visor all the time.”

 10 thing I Love AboutYOU
YOU are amazing! You may forget
sometimes, but someone always sees the
amazing things
about you that make you
so loveable.
So let me remind you of how truly
amazing you are, just because you’re
YOU:
1. Your smile.
I don’t care if your teeth aren’t perfectly
straight and bright white. When you
smile, it lights up your eyes with a
twinkle of honest delight that gives me a
glimpse into the beauty of your soul.
It’s as though you really see me and
you’re offering me a little parcel of your
heart.
So please remember, you can never
change the past nor control the future,
but you can change the mood of this
moment by touching someone’s heart
with your smile, in the same way you
have already touched mine.
2. Your self-respect.
I love the way you accept who you are
completely, the good and the bad, and
make changes in your life as YOU see fit
– not because you think anyone else
wants you to be different, but because
you know it’s the right thing to do, for
YOU.
The way you don’t rely on your
significant other, or anyone else, for your
happiness and self-worth moves me at
my core. You have taught me that our
first and last love is self-love, and that if
you can’t love and respect yourself , no
one else will be able to either.
3. Your courage.
You say you’re afraid sometimes, and
that the world seems too vast. You say
it can be a struggle just to get out of
bed in the morning, to put on your smile
and face reality, yet every day you
somehow find the strength to carry-on
and face life with courage and poise.
Your courage is my encouragement!
I love the way you prove day in and day
out that courage is not the absence of
fear, but rather the decision that other
things are more important than fear.
You take little, conscious steps every day
to love those around you, to care for
yourself, and to find joy in the smallest
moments – all these little steps add up
to greatness.
4. Your passion.
While I see others waiting around for
love, you inspire me with the way you
happily pursue your lusts . The way you
express yourself and what you hold dear
in your heart through your actions and
words, and the way you use your whole
mind and body to feel and interact with
the world around you is truly something
to be seen.
You have taught me that it’s not always
about loving the struggles in front of
you, but loving the ideas, dreams,
passions and people behind you and
within you. It gives me great joy to see
you ignited with an inner passion for
living and pursuing the ideas that move
you.
5. Your creativity.
When you speak, write or create, you act
like it’s your job to make mind-blowing,
passionate love to whatever idea it is
that drives the project you’re working on
at the time.
What astounds me is the way you
manage to communicate how you feel
and who you are in so many wondrous
ways, sometimes even without speaking
a word. The way you look at a situation
where others are asking, “Why?” and
instead ask, “Why not?” The way you
continually jump from great heights and
develop your wings on your way…
All I can say is: “Wow!”
6. Your positivity.
The way you dwell on the beauty of life…
The way you laugh, even when there’s no
pressing reason to do so…
You always turn a negative situation into
a positive opportunity. When you hear
negative thoughts, you think about the
positive side of things. When you see a
glass with water in it, you aren’t
concerned whether it’s half empty or
half full; you’re just grateful to have a
glass with something in it.
Thank you. You have made a difference
in my life by being so positive.
7. Your kindness and
compassion.
No matter how strong a person is, they
have weak points and sometimes all they
really need is a listening ear from a
compassionate friend . Thank you for
being that friend.
Even when you’ve been busy working
hard and dealing with your own issues,
somehow when I least expect it, you
reach out to help another person who is
in need. You consider their
circumstances with love rather than
judgment. You move into the “right
here, right now” with an open heart and
a willingness to be supportive,
unconditionally.
8. Your unconditional
acceptance.
You take people and their situations for
what they are, you appreciate them, and
you don’t try to label them or change
them.
I realize now that that your
unconditional acceptance doesn’t mean
you’re giving up your freewill to have an
opinion – that’s quitting. It simply
means you’re willing to let go of the
fantasies of who you think people should
be and how you think things are
supposed to be, so you can fall in love
with who they truly are and how life
really is.
9. Your sense of humor.
You are always able to see the funny side
of life through its ups and downs. You
manage to make light of situations that
could easily drive a person crazy.
Negative things happen in your life, but
somehow you shake them off and still
mange to see the humor in it all. Your
laughter and sense of humor is
infectious and lifts the mood of those
around you, so the rest of us don’t take
ourselves so seriously all the time.
Thank you for helping me see the beauty
and comedy in the absurdity of life.
10. Your love and loyalty.
Even though you have felt pain and
heartbreak, and although you sometimes
try your hardest to hide it, you just can’t
stop loving. It’s who you are on the
inside. Even though you sometimes
require alone time for rest and healing,
you always return to wanting to share
love in your life.
You have helped me understand that
relationships are about two people being
true to each other even when times are
tough , and that when it comes to
relationships, remaining faithful is never
an option, but a priority. Prolonged love
and loyalty mean the world… and yes…
your love and loyalty mean the world to
me.
Your turn…
What do you love most about yourself?
What qualities do you love most about
your closest friends and family? Share
your thoughts with us by leaving a
comment below.

Wednesday 31 August 2016


Man's fascination with the concept of
longevity beyond the 70 or 80 years of the
typical human lifespan is documented in a
variety of writings, myths and legends
stretching back thousands of years. The ancient
Greek historian Herodotus, for example, wrote
of a magical fountain in modern day Ethiopia
that restored the youth of those who bathed in
its waters, and Old Testament reckonings of the
biblical patriarch Methuselah (grandfather of
Noah) put his age at the time of his death at
between 720 and 969 years. Nonetheless,
modern reality pales in comparison to such
accounts, as the longest verified human
lifespan in recorded history is that of Jeanne
Louise Calment, who passed away in her native
France in 1997 at the age of 122.
ORIGIN:
One of the more unusual cases of asserted
human longevity in modern times involved
Chinese resident Li Ching-Yuen (also rendered
as Li Ching-Yun), mention of whom started
appearing in U.S. newspaper accounts in the
1920s accompanied by claims that he had been
born in either 1677 or 1736. When Li Ching-
Yuen finally died in 1933, at a reputed age of
either 197 or 256, the New York Times noted of
his passing that :
Li Ching-yun, a resident of Kaihsien, in
the Province of Szechwan, who
contended that he was one of the
world's oldest men, and said he was
born in 1736 — which would make him
197 years old — died today.
A Chinese dispatch from Chung-king
telling of Mr. Li's death said he
attributed his longevity to peace of
mind and that it was his belief every
one could live at least a century by
attaining inward calm.
Compared with estimates of Li Ching-
yun's age in previous reports from
China the above dispatch is
conservative. In 1930 it was said

Wednesday 8 June 2016

RIP

The Chairman of the Edo State Football Association (EFA), Frank Ilaboya, confirmed on Wednesday that the remains of former Super Eagle’s coach, Stephen Keshi, had been moved to a mortuary in Benin.
The privately-owned mortuary, Faith Mediplex, is located on the Benin Airport road in the Edo State capital.
Mr. Ilaboya quoted Mr. Keshi’s faimily member, Ricky Aburimen, as saying the Eagle’s former coach only complained of a leg ailment while holidaying at his Airport road home in Benin before he passed away.
He said Mr. Keshi died on the way to hospital at about 3 am.
The ex- international lost his wife , Nkem Kate Keshi only last December. They had been married for more than 30 years. She died after a prolonged battle with cancer.
Mr. Keshi is survived by four children and his mother.
Meanwhile, a statement on the coaches death had been released by Emmanuel Ado, brother and aide to the late Mr. Keshi, said: “With thanksgiving to God, the Ogbuenyi Fredrick Keshi family of Illah in Oshimili North Local Government Area of Delta State, announces the death of Mr. Stephen Okechukwu Chinedu Keshi’.
“Our son, brother, father, father-in-law, brother-in-law, has gone to be with his wife of 35 years (Nkem ), Mrs. Kate Keshi, who passed on on the 9th December 2015.
“Since her death, Keshi has been in mourning. He came back to Nigeria to be with her. He had planned to fly back today (Wednesday), before he suffered a cardiac arrest. He has found rest.” (NAN)